WHY AM I NOT MARRIED?
IN THIS ARTICLE I WILL BE WRITING ABOUT SINGLES AND SOME REASONS WHY SOME MARRIED WOMEN HARDLY MAKE A FAMILY.
I have seen many people asking, seeking to know the reason why there are not married.
Questions like this have become the order of the day.
Am I not attractive?
What is wrong with me?
Am I under a curse
Before you conclude let’s journey through some reasons that might be the reason why you are yet unmarried.
Many who are yet to marry fall under this category
CHARACTER / ATTITUDE
firstly what is attitude?
A predisposition or a tendency to respond positively or negatively towards a certain idea, object, person, or situation.
Character is said to be mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual.
I took the time to define this for you to have a clear understanding of what we are discussing.
Let me start by asking you this
How do you react in the public when you are angry as a young lady?
Will you love to see your relations marry that girl whom your father complained that she insulted him by calling him a smelling fool?
That lady that called your mother names And slapped her at the market just because she mistakenly stepped on her?
That lady you saw at social media posting her nude photos, that lady you saw taken hard drugs and too much alcohol?
I really want you to create the picture as you read down, the picture of what am trying to say to you.
Some girls are good to get loose when upset at public places, do you really have to slap that woman?
Our people say “the leg that walks anyhow should remember the eyes that see anyhow”
No man wants to marry a woman with the mentality of changing her tomorrow, too busy for that
Do you have this mentality that greeting is not by force?
No man wants to marry a woman who will not be able to greet his parents, friends, and siblings.
Note: greeting takes nothing away from you but it gives you much, be good to all, not only to him, be kind to even those you don’t know much about this world is a small place, you really might not be aware who is watching you.
How do you respond to men when your contact is asked off?
You really don’t want to give him your contact because he looks unkempt maybe because of the nature of his work
No one can predict the future, be polite in your dealings to everyone.
How many guys have you abused on the street calling him pig because he asked for your time?
I know by now I am solving your problem with you through your mind.think and start making amends.
A beautiful face can attract a man but it takes character to keep the man, beautiful face without good character is like a beautiful vehicle without an engine.
Why makeup to meet up because of hold up while your attitude can get you up and keep you up?
Be wise and examine your self, I wish you good luck as you start to retake your steps…
The financial woman
In the primitive stage of life, man’s role in the family was defined
But now in our generation, things are now complicated and hard to comprehend.
Since you have a house, a car and you are working it have made you overprotective over your territory
Many women are unmarried today because the work takes the time for bonding
No communication no relationship, fun builds the bond.
You have no time for the man that loves you, am busy hun, how much. Do you want?
Not all men are lazy
Why think He only needs money?
Much time to your work and negligence to your loved once will make you lose your relationship.
Finally, you made out a little time hanging out with him, at every little thing you remind him that you earn the money not him, You take control over him.
No man wants to be controlled by a woman, even when he is broke and he is at your expenses, he still needs to feel like a man.
Build a healthy relationship even if you are richer than him, no man can predict tomorrow….
The state of mind
Your mind is the engine of your future, it controls everything that happens to you.
Why keep expecting a failed relationship?
Why are you enclosed with fear of it’s gonna end soon?
This is really one of the reasons why you are not married and you might end up not married.
Not all men are the same, that your father is a beast that slaps your mother and got no respect or regard for women, never means that other men are the same.
Do you kill your self when a day of your life is ruined?
Change your mindset and have a perfect relationship that leads to marriage…
Sex might keep him
I want to let you know that sex keeps no man you don’t have to keep aborting babes because you look forward to being married by him.
My dear, he will marry your friend who kept her self, he will not love to end up with you so stop killing yourself
Sex can not, will not, and can never make him propose, not all men value sex…
A MAN WHO CAN NOT BE MANIPULATED BY SEX INTIMIDATES A WOMAN BECAUSE NOW SHE MUST BRING SOMETHING OF MORE VALUE TO THE TABLE.
Stop imposing your misfortune, stop concluding other men, you have built this wall that no man can hurt you again
It is good but how will you know the one that won’t hurt you?
Don’t fall in love with your heart alone, please when failing In love go with your mind.
Let go of the past and embrace the future, you might have lost a diamond just because you take it to be stone…open your mind
IN MOST CASES THINGS ARE MORE SPIRITUAL THAN PHYSICAL I WILL BE WRITING OUT SOME SPIRITUAL FORCES THAT CAN GET YOU CAGED…
2.sex in the dream/spiritual husband
4.your own words
Many girls by the virtue of her family background have fallen victims of late marriage. I know you will be asking how?
Have you taken the time to ask questions?
In some families you will see 3 to 7 girls at the age of 40 not married not that their character is wrong but because their fathers must have entered into a spiritual covenant with some shrines or must have committed evil and a curse was placed on the future generations.
I head a real-life story of a girl who was delivered from such curse, according to her story, her grandfathers buried 7 ladies alive, and that became a curse while all the girls in her family could not get married…
I equally have head lot of stories of some families who could not bear female children and went to some rivers and shrines in search of female child, with a promise that the child will grow to serve the river, but as modern life clip in the next generation could not do as the grandfathers promised and this became a problem, then binding lot of women today…
Sex in the dream
Science could say much about what they know, but a lot of things are still mysteries to them
Having sex in the dream is not a good thing especially when it occurs often,
It’s a sign that you are spiritually married.
In most cases, their spiritual husbands are mostly envious and jealous that they go to the extent of making men hate you or will often fight the business of any man that comes around you…
Any man that comes to seek your hand in marriage will have to face great challenges
The heart of man is desperately wicked, a lot of people are yet unmarried because of wicked, fathers, uncle sisters, and boyfriends.
I have heard a lot of stories of fathers who bind their female children for the sole purpose of looking after them in old age, many girls who are been bound today because they took advantage of their-boyfriends and ran away to marry someone else…
I won’t forget About wicked uncles and kingsmen who never want to see a family happy.in the cause of inflicting everlasting pain can curse a lot of women not to get married…
Your own words
My own words?
What we often say creat our future that is why you should often create a positive future with positive words…
Many girls consciously or unconsciously have mugged their future with ill words.
I will stop here for now
here are some reasons why many are not married in the next article I’ll be giving out solutions to these reasons…